Schools of blues moving up the Bay
Posted on Jul 22, 2010 under Fishing Industry News | 6 CommentsBig schools of “ravenous bluefish” are moving up the Bay, said Sam Toland of Sam’s Bait & Tackle. Wednesday, birds were diving on the blues…
Big schools of “ravenous bluefish” are moving up the Bay, said Sam Toland of Sam’s Bait & Tackle. Wednesday, birds were diving on the blues…
July 22nd, 2010 at 8:24 pm
Moving Blues?
We reciently moved into a new place. We were sharing a house with my inlaw because of medical reasons. Now my mother in law is retiring so we got our own place. They are moving only 25 minutes away but its still VERY hard on my oldest. So hard infact that her grades are dropping in school. I have talked to her teacher about it and have enrolled her in an after school program. She didnt have to change schools when we moved… she even moved closer to her best freind.
Does anyone have any ideas on how we can help her with the moving blues??
July 23rd, 2010 at 1:26 am
Set up specific dates where your daughter gets to go and visit your mother in law and do lunch or go to the movies or just hang out. If she knows that she will see her grandma for sure then it may make her feel better. This way, she has something to look forward to and she won’t feel abandoned.
Have a good talk with her and explain to her that change is something that happens all the time in life and sometimes you don’t like it. Teach her to look at the bright side of things and ask her how she feels about setting up "dates" with grandma and also see if she has any other ideas to make the transition easier.
It may be a good idea for grandma to talk to her and explain what the benefits are. One may be that your daughter gets to do sleep overs and grandma’s on the weekends or something like that.
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July 23rd, 2010 at 1:28 am
The only thing that can really heal this is time. She will find new friends and loose some old ones. But, in the end she will have more friends because of the move.
be patient with her and asure her that all things pass in time
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July 23rd, 2010 at 1:30 am
get some new stuff for her room and let her have a sleepover maybe if her friends see how cool her new house is she’ll feel better or maybe you could arrange for your inlaw to pick her up from school once a week then they can have special time and you can have alone time with your other child(ren) and it give your in law sumthing to do too shes recently retired and probably has alot of time on her hands although you may have to be prepared for her to take the other children for alone time i guess you’ll have to see if she has alot of time i am sure she misses them too
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July 23rd, 2010 at 1:32 am
just give it time some times time is all it takes maybe their is something deeper then just moveing
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July 23rd, 2010 at 1:34 am
sit down and talk to her and tell her that she can always visit her grandma and grandpa when ever she can.
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